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Latest  "IT" trend follows in our country.I'm not saying that employment of IT sector is negative in anyway.The reality bites are so different after seeing my husband.he is working in IT sector.i was sort out things in SOFTWARE INDUSTRY.IT sector best explanation is "Stress,depressed but well-dressed".

 Almost have their tags around their neck or in their belts all the time, even when they are out of work. When they walks, when they eat, when they  drink or when they are waiting for a cab. Only few of us are born with silver spoon and rest of us are born with our tags. Sounds funny, but a real fact.SE's favourite website is google and other search engines.if one day search engines goes down-almost every software company is going to face a productivity loss.Teamwork is one common word hear from SE's.In simple terms if they are not derive programatically that sum of one and one is two they are just writes the program that sums five,ten and twenty form it.But don't ask them how it comes or why we do it.Its a Teamwork.SE's favourite food is anything junk.I meant they like pizzas,burgers etc more than a healthy and proper food.Their clients not only influenced by their work what they give them, they also influenced by their food habits and culture.
                             They are talking such things like that,we don't want to wasting my times or we don'tlike climbing couple of floors chating with friends.because just they are using their company local software chat or public software chat talk with their friends.“Monday morning blues” – a terminology every software engineer feels. A sense of dizziness or laziness on every Monday morning which prevents us being productive at an higher extent. And if it happens, such that we had to work on the week ends the terminilogy is slightly changed to “Monday morning darkness”. Sounds like a horror movie name, but its a horror only a software engineer feels.
SE's english sometimes so peculiar like-
- Whatcha ya wanna do on a odd day like dis with a damn bug like tat??
- I am fighting hard with this OutOfMemoryException(worst than a software engineer’s wife as i'm SE's wife).
- Could I buy some of your time?(Its too costly and not for sale)
- I need a F1 from you(F1 is help).
- You better shut down(instead of shut up).
- I have a personal work, I need to ctrl+f9 or f9 home(run home).
Status reviews,Client conferences,Team lunch these are called official meetings but the truth behind is they have sometime to talk with another person and somone talks with another one..Its the time for relax.

                                    They are so obsessed to binaries, that’s zeroes and ones that most of us remain as a ZERO or a ONE in life in this career.They never tend to be striking a balance between a zero and one. I think,our lives much be better than these digital lives.

is it safe for women in india?

Dec-16th 2012 a year ago..then year later Dec-16 2013 how much was changed?.Still rape happens in india because we are a callous nation.A year ago,we were shocked by the enormity of what happened to a girl in a bus at newdelhi.Law changed  but society still remains unchanged .I didn’t know her or her family. All I know is that she was someone’s daughter, someone’s sister. She was looking forward to live happily, in the biggest democracy of the world – INDIA. She is no more physically with us…but, she will remain with us eternally in our punctured conscience…GOD willing!!! The time of ACTION has arrived. The time to make INDIA safe for our women has arrived. And, it is going to be the YOUTH who would be the flag bearers of this noble movement. 

Women security its a big question in india.even today newsfeeds filled with stories of violence and sexual harrasments.Today's headlines and todays manufactured will be found in tomorrows dustbin.This is not the first time it has happened.it will not be the last.It will happen again and again and multiple times of a day across this great nation called india.It will happen because we r proud indians,didn't expect any cruel punishment .Things has happened everytime but judgement never change.Punishment that will be result in physically harm to us. 

Take a look around Violence,sexual harrasments,Eve teasing and rapes in india.Look at the woman sitting next to you, or any of the women in your family, your friends, or ANY woman for that matter. I can guarantee you that she has been abused, molested or eve-teased at some time.

 And has anyone come to her rescue?

Don't we all ignore it when we see it happen?

Are we either not in a hurry, or frightened, or whatever other stupid reason we give ourselves, to intervene?

To right, or at least lend our weight in correcting a situation that is so obviously wrong?

each time I read a statement that the woman did not protest.

PROTEST for God's sake?

Women have protested since time immemorial, but is anyone listening?

Instead, and more often not, the most infantile excuses are made -- either a woman invited it, or she wanted it, or a man could not help himself, or this is how men are or...

And what exactly is a woman supposed to do? You let me know.

Here are some everyday incidents that occur to women regularly. And these incidents happen not because of how a woman is dressed, how a woman looks or what her age is.

It happens because a man knows he can do it and get away with it.

Here's one example:

Someone looks at you from tip to toe. It is not a pleasant look, it is not an admiring look, it is a DOWNRIGHT SLEAZY look. No, you as a woman have not invited it.

And if you protest (of course, you have to protest loudly for the protest to register), the man will either look at you innocently and say, 'Behenji, aap ko galat fahimi ho gayi hai, maine kuch nahi kiya (Sister, you are mistaken; I have done no such thing)' or he will give you an injured look as if you are doing him a major wrong or he will look you up and down once more or he will say, 'So what? I looked. Dekhne ke liye paise lagte hai kya? (Does it cost to look?)'

What are you, a commodity being sold by a vendor who screams, 'Aao bhai, dekne ka paisa nahi lagta?'

And this, trust me, can happen not just on the road; it can happen in places where you least expect it; where you think you are safe.

So many women have to wait at a bus stop at night. It should be safe na? Ask them how many times has a car or bike stopped to size them up, to ask: Are you coming with me?

You chose to take a bus because you didn't want to go home with an unknown taxi or auto driver. Instead, your cautious behaviour makes you a prostitute in the eyes of the men passing by. Of course, if you are out late without a male escort, you can't be up to anything good...

REALLY?

And this, all of this, happens regularly to the women in your life -- your mother, your sister, your friend, your female relative.

And they deal with it. And they remain the wonderful, loving, human beings that they are.

Which is why it guts me, and enrages me, that the men who disrespect women do not pause for a second to think of the women in their lives.

Try telling an eve-teaser, Don't you have mothers and sisters?. Hai -Yes, you will get a smart answer, biwi nahi hai (but I don't have a wife)... Or they will burst forth with the vilest abuses.

These are -- as compared to rape -- small incidents, but they happen every second in India.

Every woman has experienced it. And, believe me, women DON'T ask for it. They feel cheapened and disgusted each time it happens.

And here's what I, as a woman would like:

Severe punishment (Castration? Life imprisonment with no parole ever?) for those who rape. Rape destroys a victim in more ways than you can imagine.

Severe punishment for incest.

Severe punishment for eve-teasing and sexual harassment.

The perpetrators of these heinous acts must feel the full weight of their crimes.

Unfortunately for women, this will never happen. India is filled with people (of both genders), who think there is nothing wrong in disrespecting or demeaning women.

 one day, all the women in India protest in one voice against all the atrocities committed against them.

Life of an indian @foreign

Its a very interesting article to read in newspaper and write in my blog added with some features..commonly in a foreign land is generally associated with high renumeration,comfortable lifestyle and immense prospect of secured future.for a common youth in india,an opportunity of job in abroad is an all-time dream.

                                              Some people think money makes all things happened in our life but the fact is money can't fill the happiness.Foreign opportunity can't make to do all the things.Left behind parents are growing old,reaching the years of vulnerability and longing greatly to have their children and grand children around them in sunset years.The childrens urge them"Come to america,Come live with us.or come atleast for sixmonths".

                     NRI's holds a very special status in all walks of indan life.They are well recognized for their deep pockets,Most of the NRI's are considered very successful in indian society,regardless how they make their living in foreign land.What is their social status in the country they live in?how are the NRI's perceived in the foreign land?.

                      In the foreign society,we can find lots of successful NRI's and middle class indians who are well settled,but there is nothing to envy about their social status,atleast not in the adopted country.They are just a part of another minority.Successful NRI's who have professionally established nd wellbeing in foreign countries.They make a good living,enjoy upper middle class life in most of the cases.However there is no special stature for this special group people.The americans consider them outsiders.These well behave and well educated indians are sometimes considered as the cause of higher unemployment and blamed for stealing jobs for their locals.NRI's have a complete reverse role in their adopted countries.Everyone looking up in india,they are looked down in abroad.
                       NRI's sacrifices lots of things for make succeed in foreign country including their pride,social stature,social identity most important their personal life. They are just re-adjust and often have to adapt the rules and customs of new land with their uncomfortable lifestyle.The hurdles and challenges that a new corner faces are way too many.Their own way of life compromised and they are adapting to the foreign lifestyle.The whole adaptation happens so slowly – over the years, that NRIs don’t even realize the slow self-change in many cases, the slow changes over the decades of life abroad.
                    Life is a funny thing. It always looks different when you look back at the past, versus looking at the present. Perhaps going abroad was the right decision at that time. Perhaps, many of us did not have any better choice when we first left the homeland, long time ago. Or perhaps, most of us never thought that we were leaving our country for good. When we first start the journey, most of us may have never realized that we are permanently leaving behind so much. When we first go abroad, we all make a self-promise to return home, and yet rarely keep the promise.So, there is not a whole lot to envy about NRIs. For some monetary gains, for a dream of prosperity and a perceived better life, most of the NRIs have lost a lot, many have sacrificed too much. The sad part – most of us don’t even realize it, don’t even think about it. All along, over the years as times goes on, something called ‘life’ happens – a new life with new friends, and in the new society in the new land.
                      

Gender Inequality

we are in 21st century but still we have a gender inequality problem its not only our problem or someone's problem still it is a global problem.In the way societies make a distinction between men and women.That the different characteristics,roles and status accorded to women and men in society they are determined by sex,that they are natural but not a changeable.In this society showing a difference between men and women.As soon as child born families and society begin the process of gendering.

                                        In some families birth of the son is celebrated and birth of the daughter is filled with pain.Boys are encouraged to be tough and outgoing.Girls are encouraged to be homebound and shy.All these gender differences and they are created by society.Gender inequality has adverse impact on development goals as reduces economic growth.Many developing countries including India have displayed gender inequality in education, employment and health.Basically society should remember where women can make a individual decissions on their personal development as well as shine as equals in society.a common expectation is that men tend to be more assertive and absolute because of their biological hormones. Another huge origin is sexual discrimination; even in the world today, many women are viewed by men as just sex objects rather than a real human being with standards and morals.However it may occur, the main causes of gender differences can be traced back to a belief in male dominance, the biological hormones and intelligence of men and women, and sexual themes.With their incomparable quality of calmness of their mind, they can easily handle even toughest situation. Indian women are completely devoted to their families.

During this time there was a little development in the women status. There were many women reformers in India who worked for the uplift & betterment of their female counterparts. The begun of Bhopal discarded the ‘purdah’ & fought in the revolt of 1857. Their education was elevated and English was introduced during this period. Various female writers emerged in the society.

In the modern time, women in India were given freedom & right such as freedom of expression & equality as well as the right to be educated. Various prestigious positions at this period were held by women. They’re enjoying the ‘ladies first’ facility in different fields. However, some problems such as dowry, domestic violence, sex selective abortion, female infanticide are still prevalent.

Marriages are made in heaven...

                  


 Marriage is sacred bond which is not only involves the couple but also the two families.its arranged/love marriage,nothing different for a both..its just a question in minds of persons who are scared  to live with an unknown partner for whole life or either who are ready to share their lives with a friend/known person..

There is always a thought in  mind that love marriages is best because of couples understanding built before entering marriage..but its nothing related to marriage type..once comes to knowing each other and understanding level increases..but the understanding level can be built if you have faith and trust among the couple..Love/arranged marriages both have gives lifelong satisfaction.. love and marriage both are inseparable from each other in any kind of marriage..  

 

Don't forget to do the little things that make each of you smile and feel loved.Talk graciously to each other about your thoughts especially things for the two of you to agree upon or do together.For Happy lives its not depends upon love/arranged marriage..Its only depends upon persons understanding..