Sunday, 20 December 2015

Where is the justice in INDIA??

In india, Under minority people can  do robbery,rape whatever it is it doesn't matter that accused person will be released soon.This is indian law. how ashamed laws it was?These all laws and rules are applicaple only in india.
                       That girl she struggled for survival, first in Delhi and then in a hospital in Singapore. She died of her injuries 13 days later.NIRBHAYA'S mother had promised to her daughter she would fight for her but now she said she had failed.


Not only Nirbhaya in everyday some where women was kidnapped,raped,missing but we won't get justice in India. Is this society we needs?These political leaders we want?Where is the justice?ashamed in India as a Indian.
Even people are scared to give a birth to girl child because of Indian society.


In UP,recently we read an article in newspaper 28 day old infant raped.what type of society.she was just born baby how rudely he had done.Hanged him immediately.In India cases,courts everything is surrounding in behind so many laws.
                                 In such cases media will be interviewed accused people and If media will ask why? accused person replied,Women who go out at night have only themselves to blame in case they attract attention of male molesters.Disgusting answers they were told.
                                    Even corruption got released,drunk&drive  and hit& drive cases also released because they are having money in India only we can bought any thing even justice also.so that's why may be goddess of justice eyes always tied up with a cloth because she can't see justice.




Tuesday, 8 December 2015

Why women Should accept change??Why not men???

After a long time i'm writing again..why women should compromise and why women should accept change in her lives.Is it necessary in this society.
    she is a princess for her parents.Little doll for her brothers/sister.she is a very precious for them.but why you people send her to another house..All are telling this is our tradition women can't stay after some time  at mom's place.Is this responsibility for her ??
      

       After she got married everything has been changed in her life..Now her parents and sibblings were others.We can't live at home with out a mom/dad for one day.With whom i fought/play jokes in this new house..But here we can stay life long now on wards this is our's house.
Before the day what ever you want you can do,life was easy going.Lots of freedom,your decissions was wanted.After married,each and every step we need to think before we opened our mouth.
               In our society,Whether it is love or arranged but same issues we faced,because we love the boy but you get married to the whole family.We were expected to change and adapt the new life style.No body cares about how you feel in that moment.Because this is decades culture. 
            

                    The facts remains that you will remain an outsider for your husband's family all your life.The money matters  and family secrets will all be discussed behind closed doors.But after that also you must feel comfortable.Another very strange thing especially for women the moment you get married people ask you to give them a "Good News".Its not a Automatic Process.Its a responsibility how difficult that to understand.Lastly you may have an amazing and understanding husband but will he ever hear any problem that you are facing at his place -No.He will ask you to adjust..
          These all are not applicable for men because of "HE".He can do anything.If he won't give value/respect to wife parent's it doesn't a matter.
               My intention is not to scare anyone.Indian In-Laws fail to understand that daughter-in-law is not a villian here to take away your son.Show your love towards her she will love you back whole heartedly.Take one step forward she will give Care,Love and kindness unconditionally.She will creates to your world.Let marriage be a beautiful thing to happen not a burden for her.